Spanking : Bare bottom always needed?

A question that is often asked is, must you always give a bare bottom spanking? Or, why do you have to take the panties/boxers down? They're barley covering the butt, it won't matter! 

This readers, is actually a conflict I agree with, I honestly see no harm in having to keep the undergarments on, unless you hit like a whimp, the spankee will obviously feel the sting. But why does a spanker feel so much that they must do it bare bottom? It's probably due to the embaressment aspect and shame to it, if your already being punished, getting your bottom bared will probably add to the shame and hit the lesson home, more than that ol' brush will.

But overall, it's my personal thoughts that you don't have to take down the undergarments of a spankee, just make sure your scolding and hitting hard enough to make sure they get the picture. And besides, I find panties and such make a bottom look better than it would having to see the private parts. Don't ask me why, I haven't figured it out myself really.

Sorry for another short one again, but oh well, maybe next time.

Thanks, Krylancelo.

How to handle a spanking?

I've only been a spanko for a short while, but I've come across so many people in my life who have brought up the point of spanking being only abusive and can never teach a child a damned thing, because it is just beating them. This is a common mistake, it isn't the spanking that is the abuse, it's the SPANKER. It all depends on how the person handles out the said punishment. The amount of love, talking, force, everything has to be taken into account by the spanker.

You must think about the person being spanked, the relationship you have with them, their age, the thing they're being punished for, all of it. Obviously, you can't belt a 9 year old girl, that's just not done. Maybe a smack on the bottom or two if they act out slightly, not a beating. Or lets say you have the rebelious teenage boy, you can't just give them a few pats to the bottom and wag your finger. 

Also, you never just spank and never say anything, you have to commincate through out the WHOLE spanking, tell them you love them, why this is happening. Not just during it either, make sure to scold them at the start of the spanking, and then the most imporant part comes at the end.

Once you have finished spanking the spankee, you must ALWAYS remember, a hug is needed. No matter what, a hug communicates that you aren't just a heartless monster that just beat their butt because they made you angry or upset. Hug them and remind them that you'll always love them, maybe take them out to eat a snack. Anything but just saying "Get in the corner." and leave it at that, expecting everything to be done. Even punishment spankings should abide by this.

A spanking can be classifed as abuse, when it's not done the right way. Not done the loving way, if your just bashing away at the spankees butt to get some frustration out, then that is pure anger spanking, or abuse if you wish. Remember, spankings are done with love and care.

From, Krylancelo.

The first of many blog posts to come.

Hello everyone, Krylancelo here.

This is the first post in my new blog. Spanking : The Younger View.

I'm going to be posting things like rants, my point of view about spanking, personal experiences, all of that jazz. And I hope to get things running soon, and hopefully have some comments and readers, or else this might die out soon. Not many places you can advertise this sort of thing, ya know? 

To start things off, the demographic that teenagers cannot enjoy spanking because they are young. That's nonsense really, now why the majority of people that say this IS small, it still pisses me off when people bring it up. Just because we're a few years underage of 18 we can't understand a spanking? We can't love it? We don't know how it works? Rubbish. Even small children can figure out the basic layout behind a spanking, the love and everything their parent's try to tell them they're giving them. But of course, being children, they don't see it that way yet. But later on in life, they reach a full understanding behind what they're mothers and fathers were doing.

Now, I'm not saying every underage person understands it, some need more time, but people like myself that are armed with common thinking knowledge can grasp these things early. And well, not all of us are immature little brats. We are actually smarter than you think, some in more ways, some not in some ways. But unless you have cold hard hitting facts that the person you are dealing with is a ammature, then don't go spouting nonsense about us being young and foolish.

Now while it wasn't that long, I hope you enjoyed the first entry in my blog, and remember, don't be afraid to comment or chat about spanking, young people and adults alike.

I will be making an IRC chatroom for this blog soon, but untill then, please feel free to reach me at my email on MSN Live Messenger for chats about spanking. (Not meet-ups, no, as much as I would like that, we still have to abide by the law.) But if you feel like talking about it, please feel free to reach me at :

dddnelly5003@yahoo.com

Thank you, Krylancelo.